What Should I Wear to a Swingers Party
February 12, 2014
When looking for a swinger’s party or club to attend most of them have a fun sexy theme for the night. Sometimes it may be a simple color such as a red or white night; other themes you might see are Toga, Pimp and Ho, Leather and Lace, or a Glow Party. The next question you may ask yourself is… Do I have to participate in the theme in order to attend? The answer is no, of course not! The purpose of the themes is to add a little more excitement to the night. Dressing in theme can be a fun and great way to meet new people. If your costume is sexy and creative you are more likely to stand out from the crowd and a creative costume can be a great conversation starter as well. You will find that there is always a good mixture of couples who participate in the themes and some that do not.
If you do not want to participate in the theme you at least want to dress nice. Some clubs will have a dress code to follow, so always ask prior to attending the party. Hub City Select does not have a dress code but we do expect couples to “dress to impress”. A good rule of thumb is to dress as if you are going on a first date. You need to remember that you are meeting new people with hopes of finding some extra bedroom fun, so you want to look nice.
For the first timers who are a little nervous, wear clothing that makes you feel comfortable, something that you would wear to a nice dinner or to a vanilla club is perfect. Most women generally change several times throughout a night depending on their comfort level. If you are a little nervous show up in jeans and heels and once you feel more comfortable you can always change into something a little more risqué later in the evening. Most lifestyle clubs you will see women in everything from a sexy top and jeans, to a hot dress or lingerie. Now as for the gentleman, it’s simple, great pair of jeans, nice collared shirt, a little cologne and you’re sure to drive the ladies crazy.
The key to dressing for a Swingers party is to look hot and sexy. If you do this, you are sure to meet new friends and have a great time.